i have a thought….
there is a misconception between sexualities and gender. there needs to be a renewal of terms…i am not gay. i am attracted to men. that is because i may not identify as a man or a woman. homosexual implies..i am attracted to a member of the same gender…but i may not be the same gender..i am attracted to males. men. penis in particular if necessary to proclaim...this is regardless of my gender. REGARDLESS of my gender. so what am i? i am attracted to men. and i may consider myself queer. queer in this society of "normal straight" ppl….
A homosexual orientation means that one is attracted to members of the same gender only.
is that legitimized? hmmm. i feel like not. i am not governed by my gender. however..i cannot change my likes and dislikes. i cannot change what it is i am attracted to. my gender…male or female…. my body happens to posses male characteristics..
back to the issue up top..why shall i be labeled as a homosexual as a term that specifies that i am a man who likes men when i simply like men regardless of my gender physical or mental. why must we be labeled? why must we be controlled by a title and a label for society to grasp us as a group of DIFFERENT people. "are you a label of society??…yes…ok lets date." are you the weirdo that society thinks you are?..yes. ok lets date." thats ridiculous. why must we be boxed and enclosed in society…i am not a weird person. i am attracted to men. simply. plainly. accept it. move on. why must you consider what i have between my legs in order to legitimate that? why are your feelings any better than mine? your principle sexual secret isn't to reproduce..isn't to have children..its to satisfy your sexual desires..when you get a blowjob or touch a woman..you do it to enjoy her skin to enjoy her body. i do the same thing. i feel the same things for men and i would like to express/ and enjoy as much as i can the power and feeling of my sexuality. of my like. why am i scrutinized for what i am? discrimination…i cannot have the feelings for a man that a woman has because i am a man. men and women should be different. there should be no similarities.
foolishness.
